Adding the right pictures to your on-line dating profile will be one of the largest deciding factors of finding the right match. Studies have shown that first impressions are made within the first 3 seconds of seeing someone, and this is no different in the world of online dating. Everyone knows that pictures are a must for any profile, but finding the right ones to add to your site can be quite difficult. Below are the 7 main things to consider when adding picture to your profile.

1. Quantity

Most online dating sites allow you to upload anywhere between 3-5 pictures. Take advantage of this and add as many pictures as the site allows. Having a large selection of pictures will give potential matches a better idea not just about your looks, but also about your lifestyle, circle of friends, and values.

2. Wide Selection

Don’t show too many similar pictures on your profile. Instead show a variety that represents you and your life from different angels.

3. Use current photos

Make sure that your pictures are no older than a year. If you recently added a few pounds, don’t lie and post a picture from 5 years ago when you had a dream beach body. Physical attraction is a big part for any relationship, and potential candidates should get an accurate and current picture of you.

4. Avoid provocative pictures

Don’t show your best features in a too obvious manner. If you have a model type body, don’t pose like you are in a Victoria Secret catalogue. Be tasteful about showing your assets. Being too obvious about it can actually be seen as insecurity. Don’t show too much, but instead tease in a way that looks somewhat unintentional.

5. Don’t brag

Even if you happen to own a Ferrari or Private Jet, don’t show them off in your dating profile. Men tend to do this more often than women do. There are plenty of profiles out there where men pose in a fine Italian suit and necktie in front of some exotic sports car. Be humble! Potential matches browsing your profile will be able to tell. There is no need to be too obvious about it.

6. The relaxed look

Having a relaxed and laid back look is what you want to aim for. Wear relaxed and comfortable clothes, and stay away from an uptight business look of suit and tie. Wear something that represents your own style and lifestyle.

7. Use Photos that relate to the rest of your Profile

If you are an avid snowboarder, why not show your passion in one of your pictures. It shows your adventurous and athletic side. If family is important to you, have a picture with you and your family. Having family pictures is usually a good choice, as it adds a warm, and more personal touch to your profile.

If you follow the few tips above you will guaranteed get more responses from your profile.

H Pohl is in an expert in men’s fashion, and he enjoys sharing his knowledge by regularly writing articles for online publications and magazines about fashion and etiquette. Especially formal dress ranging from regular trendy suits to black tie attire are his main focus. He also suggests you check out the following neckties and bow ties.

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