Hey girls, are you still searching for those magical get him back secrets. Well, there’s good and bad news regarding this but what you really need to know up front is there really are no secrets at all.

We’ve heard plenty of “horror stories” from spurned women who resort to such things as using supposed magic love potions, tarot cards and believe it or not, witchcraft! Even though you’re hurting right at the moment you need to do one thing right away - stop chasing hocus pocus solutions.

The answer is to follow some easy to follow guidelines and stop doing stuff that just doesn’t make any sense. For instance, while this may be instinctive and you can’t bear the thought of going for a day without contacting him the truth is, this will be pushing him further and further away. There’s several reasons for this and we’ll explain two of them in this article. Read the rest of this entry

If you are on a mission to get your guy back then this article is for you. We examine the story of Jennifer who had lost her guy but hadn’t given up hope of getting him back. Does this sound familiar?

Jennifer wanted to get guy back.  She wasn’t in a good position to do so however.  She had accused her ex, Cory, of flirting with her best friend.  Jennifer knew that Cory was just being friendly, but she was having a bad day and she took it out on Cory.

Now Jennifer is contrite and she wants to get her guy back.  Unfortunately, the guy doesn’t want to be gotten back.  He wants nothing further to do with Jennifer.  What’s a girl to do? Let’s take a look at the steps She took to get back in her Guy’s life. Read the rest of this entry

How do you get a guy back?  How do you convince him that what the two of you had together was special?  This is your “get guy back” gal’s guide to making up.

First of all, you have to recognize that whatever happened, you were both at fault.  If you cheated, he wasn’t giving you what you needed so you looked elsewhere.  If he cheated, you were the one not giving what he needed.  Yes, the cheater is morally culpable for the cheating.  The moral responsibility does not lie with the person who was cheated upon.  But the fault lies in both party’s laps.

Given that, it is important to forgive and forget.  True forgiveness means that you let go of all of the anger related to the incident.  You never bring it up again.  You never let it cloud your relationship.  If you cannot do this, you won’t get guy back for any period of time. Read the rest of this entry