Trying to save your relationship may depend on how you react to impulse. In other words, doing the opposite to what you are thinking.

The Magic Of Making Up promotes a solid blueprint for winning your ex back and author T W Jackson says the key is to implement some counterintuitive techniques. That is, if you are thinking about calling your ex then don’t, fight the impulse, remain cool and let the feeling pass.

It’s a little like the cravings someone trying to give up smoking gets and it knocks on the door of your mind for a little while but then passes. Too many people in a situation of trying to get their ex back will surrender to these impulses and further aggravate the situation.

Jackson promotes the concept of giving your ex time to miss you again and if you continually phone, text message, email or talk to their friends about them, then you’re not going to create that aura of them missing you. These counterintuitive techniques may seem wrong to most of you but Jackson says when implemented, they prove themselves to work time and time again.

Saving Your Relationship

The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you’re able to do so.

It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you’ve beem nagging them about getting back together.

The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You’re probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.

By not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique which is part of the proven blueprint laid out in the Magic Of Making Up book.

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