So is your marriage in crisis? Marriage is a great instituition when it’s working yet many fall apart over the most trivial issues. Too many couples let it slide to oblivion but did you know you can turn things around and stop it from crashing down around you?

There are obvious danger signs that could be happening right now and if they were, would you be able to recognize them? What could seem trivial to you may be a big deal for your partner so don’t take anything for granted.

In this article, we will look at the question you may be asking about whether your marriage is in trouble and while we may not have the total solution right now, at least you can take more notice of what’s happening around you and do something about it before it leads to an inevitable split.

Your Marriage In Crisis

#1. First, look at how often you have sex. While sex isn’t the whole point of the marriage—it’s much more important than just that—it’s a crucial part of a healthy marriage.

#2. A marriage in crisis is usually pretty easy to spot by looking at your sex lives. Do you have sex infrequently? Is it a big, scheduled deal when you do have sex? Have you stopped having sex spontaneously just when you feel like it?

#3. When sex becomes a scheduled activity, a marriage can certainly recover. In fact, most marriages go through a phase very much like that when a baby is born. Each child makes it more and more difficult to find the time to spend with our partner over a meal or before leaving for work, let alone finding a spare hour to make love.

#4. A marriage in crisis never breaks out of that pattern. Instead, even when the time is there the partners don’t have spontaneous sex. Usually there’s very little physical affection shown during the day either. People in love and happy to be together tend to hug and kiss different times through the day.

#5. A loving couple will often touch each other just in passing. One will give the other a fast kiss on the cheek or forehead for no reason. Does this still happen in your marriage? Do you ever sneak a quick pinch or pat on the bottom or a sexy look in the middle of the day?

#6. When these things start to disappear, it can be a sign that the marriage is in trouble. The other thing that goes in a very obvious way is common courtesy. When you say “thank you,” “excuse me,” and “please,” throughout your day to strangers more than you say them to your partner, something’s wrong.

#7. We take our partners for granted in this way, and eventually this leads to a sort of coldness between people. There is simply no reason not to be affectionate and thank our partners (and say please) during the course of everyday life. This is one thing to consider when thinking “is my marriage in trouble?”

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