Trying to spot the warning signs of a breakup can be difficult when you are in the relationship. Many couples drift aimlessly towards the inevitable break up and in a strange way, almost wait before it’s too late before they do anything about it.

Sometimes you’re too close to your own relationship to see what’s wrong with it. Problems build up over time and if you don’t recognize them then they fester until the bubble bursts and it’s “all over red rover.”

So how can you see these breakup warning signs? In this article we will look at some of the signs which can be termed dangerous to the longevity of a relationship. See if these are happening in yours at the moment.

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#1. The obvious one is if you are both always arguing. But when you just fight and don’t make friends, you are on dangerous ground.

Perhaps worse is when you have gone past the stage of fighting and now just ignore one another. There is nothing lonelier than sharing a double bed with someone and having enough room to drive a huge bus between you. Some of the loneliest people are those that are in a broken relationship.

#2. Another sign you could look for is whether your partner prefers to spend time with other people. Now don’t get paranoid on me. No matter how much they love you, we all need some time out with our own friends. It is when your partner is spending more time with the other people, than with you and your family, that you need to worry.

#3. If you see any signs of trouble, you cannot ignore them, but you need to deal with it now. Before you tackle your partner, you need to first decide what you want. Do you see a future with this person? If you do then you need to fight for your happiness; but in a very nice way. Shouting matches or physical violence are not the way forward.

If you have children arrange for a friend to mind them. Ask your other half out for the evening. If you go to a public place like a restaurant, the conversation is less likely to descend into an argument.

#4. Don’t jump into the chat by flinging accusations or telling your spouse how let down/ignored/unhappy you feel. You will only put them on the defensive and that will lead to an argument. Instead, ask them how they are feeling. Are they happy with the current situation?  Is there anything they feel could be improved?

Listen to what they say and try to stay calm and non judgmental. It is not going to be easy and you may have to listen to some uncomfortable stuff. If you want to stay together then take heed of these relationship breakup warning signs.

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