What to Do When All You Date Are Jerks
We’ve all got dating patterns and we are all frustrated the same. Why do I always date the same guy, you ask yourself. Why am I reminded of my dad with every boyfriend? How come the type of guy with really spiky hair is the only type that approaches me?
You continue to date the same type of guy because you are the same type of person. You need to discover whatever it is about you that attracts jerks, and then change it if you don’t want to date them.
Now sometimes people are just big, huge jerks, don’t get me wrong. But we are not talking about them, we are talking about you. You need to follow the three steps here to stop your jerk-dating pattern.
First Step: Ask a Friend
Go to your most honest friend and really ask why they think you’ve dated the same type of loser more than once. Listen to why they think that is and what they tell you.
Second Step: Being Single
From here you need to decide to be single for awhile. During this time when you are truly single, date yourself. Get to know you and learn what it is that makes you tick. Really think about what it is you’re looking for and what you need to be happy. Once you figure this out write it down, keep it in your bag, and read it every day.
Date the Antithesis: Third Step
When you feel ready to date, do yourself a favor and date someone that is nothing like your ex. Seek out someone that is different so you can get a taste for what is out there. Even if you don’t think they are your “type” you might be surprised to find that there are all kinds of people that you can connect with.
With time and self-reflection you won’t date anymore jerks. Like all challenges we face, the first step is admitting you have a problem.
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